Devin sent this article to me over the weekend. How that girl has time to read the NYT, I'll never know.
I think my favorite line from the whole article is right on the very first page -
"I’ve never really believed that you just marry one day at the altar or before a justice of the peace. I believe that you become married — truly married — slowly, over time, through all the road-rage incidents and precolonoscopy enemas, all the small and large moments that you never expected to happen and certainly didn’t plan to endure. But then you do: you endure."